15 Years of Volunteering - A Story of Friendship

For 15 years, I’ve attended Wednesday’s Multi-Activity sessions which gives the members the opportunity to be creative, make friends, and best of all to laugh. 

But if I had to sum up my experience with ECL in one story it would be when, several years ago, our sessions were based in Walton-on-Thames town centre and we’d often take members out for a walk around the shops. One day, I was strolling through town with Mandy, an ECL member, when we bumped into an acquaintance of mine. In that split second, I hesitated.  How was I going to introduce Mandy? Then, without thought, it came naturally: "Oh, this is my friend Mandy."

It was in that moment I realised that every member at ECL is my friend, just like any other person in my life. Some share stories about their holidays and flip through photo albums with pride, while others repeat the same tales time and again. But isn’t that what friendship is? Listening, engaging, and simply being present with someone who values your time.

Why volunteering at ECL is life-changing

People with learning disabilities and/or autism often face barriers- social misconceptions, isolation, and exclusion. But when you step into ECL as a volunteer, those barriers fade. You don’t see disabilities - you see personalities, passions, and individuals with dreams like everyone else.

The beauty of ECL is that it doesn’t just enhance the lives of its members; it enriches the lives of volunteers too. I’ve gained so much from volunteering time at ECL - laughter, meaningful conversations, and a perspective on friendship that is refreshing.

Want to make a difference? Become a volunteer at ECL

If you’re looking for a volunteer opportunity that truly changes lives, including your own, ECL is the perfect place. Whether it’s through crafting, chatting, or simply spending time together, you’ll find yourself forming friendships that go far beyond a single session.

Because at the heart of it all, being a volunteer isn’t just about giving, it’s about receiving something invaluable: connection, understanding, and the joy of human interaction.